If you’re someone who exercises regularly, the odds are that you look at a fit guy or fit girl and appreciate their hard work and discipline. At times, you may even admire the other person’s physique and give them credit for the effort that they put in to get it. In the same breath, there are times where people will see someone who is in great shape – and in some cases, proud to show it – and immediately start criticizing and judging the person.
If a muscular guy (like yourself, right?) is wearing a tank top, you’ll hear some people whisper that the guy is a meat head or taking something. If a fit girl is running with a sports bra on or spandex shorts, some girls will roll their eyes and think she is trashy. Why so negative? You even see the same thing with money when people see somebody wealthy and immediately label them as rich and spoiled.
Words of Wisdom
Never be one of those people. I honestly don’t know if it is jealousy, insecurity, or what. Regardless, you should be working your tail off so that you can shine. Greet people and give them a smile and may you light up the darkness. When you see a wealthy person, be proud that they worked their ass off to get where they are. If you see somebody who has more than you or is doing more successful than you, hat goes off to them. In doing so, maybe this person will have some success secrets to share with you.