Sex at any time of day is pretty great, but don’t skip over doing it in the morning as well as at night. During the night your body builds up its testosterone levels which means that morning sex can be that much more fun. There will also be higher levels of the hormone vasopressin in your body in the morning, which increases the feelings of bonding if you’ve been trying to get closer to one lucky lady.
The mornings tend to be a little slower paced than the rest of the day while you’re still waking up, so spend some time cuddling her and slowly warming her up. You can also spend that time saying sweet things that might get her in the mood. If there’s any leftover heat from the night before whether you had sex before bed or not, it shouldn’t take much to get things going.
Relationship expert Wendy Walsh even suggests that morning sex can lower inhibitions similarly to how drunk sex can…but minus the fuzzy brain or negative alcohol effects.
“Sometimes, when people are half-asleep or half-awake, it functions a little like how alcohol functions: It lowers some of their inhibitions. When you are inhibited, it means you’re feeling overly self-aware. You’re worried about what your partner’s perceiving. However, when your inhibitions are lowered — whether artificially through alcohol at night, or in the morning through drowsiness — it allows you to get closer to the animal in you. Which is what procreation is … let the animal rave, let the animal free.”
Some women are always up for a morning roll in the hay, but if yours isn’t the best thing you can do is make her feel comfortable and wanted. Some women are a little self conscious in the morning since they haven’t brushed their teeth or anything, but if you make it clear that you don’t mind then she probably won’t either. Some women will need to use the bathroom first since sex can push on the bladder.
You can also use the morning breath thing as an excuse to change up the positions, and use moves like laying on your side to spoon and whatnot.
In the morning you and your girl will be more likely to be on the same page as far as your energy levels go, so you might as well do it when it makes sense for both of you as opposed to waiting until the end of the day and then seeing how you feel.
Having sex in the morning can both help you feel alert for the day as well as head into relaxed. Sex has been shown to increase blood flow to the brain which can help activate many areas in it, and orgams can release hormones that make you feel happy and calm your nerves. For some people just knowing that they started the day with sex is enough to make the day a whole lot more bearable.